A Message To My Lovely Sisters:
God loves you and He wants the best for you and He wants you to love you and know who you are in Him. He wants others to love who you are in Him.
Before I started dating my amazing husband, before we even met, my prayer to God was that I wanted to be so deep inside God that any man would have to go through the heart of God to get to my heart. I told God that if I was to be found, I wanted to be found in His house, doing His work, and that’s exactly what happened.
I desired a man who knew and loved Jesus as his personal Savior because I was and still am certain of the fact that only a man who was made by Love, who is God, a man who has experienced and accepted the perfect love which is salvation would know how to love me, a child of God, and daughter of the most high God. How can one love if they do not truly know love in an intimate way.
The Bible says that Adam knew Eve. That means that Adam had intimate knowledge of Eve, that is the first time they had sex, after marriage. So to know someone is to have an intimate, spiritual and physical experience. We are to know God in this same way and we can only do this through salvation. For God so loved the world that He gave His only son that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life.
My born again sisters, daughters of the most High God, I say all this to say that whoever God has for you is the best for you and for Him to be the best for you in God’s sight, he must know God and God must know him. Your man & God must have knowledge of each other, and Yes He must be born again.
You can be friends and show Christ’s love and minister to your male friends who are not believers but honey, you should not date and be yoked with unbelievers. I know its a hard pill to swallow.
Dear ladies, you will have to choose between him & God. That is the decision you will ultimately have to make.
His lifestyle will begin to reflect in yours, the polite clubbing, polite drinking and smoking. When you are together the born again, spirit filled, tongue talking “rabasheke” believing you will begin to vanish. You will go back to the “occasional” bi-weekly wine and lounge hang out and completely refuse to accept that you have compromised. You eventually backslide badly. I always thought that when there are two people from very different schools of thought, one always influences the other, but in 1st Corinthians 15:33 the Bible clearly says, “do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.” NIV
In the same vein, do not think that you will change the man, you are not Jesus, only Jesus can change someone. Choose Jehovah. I won’t lie to you that it will be easy. If you are already in such a relationship choose to walk away. Take a step from any relationship you are in where you are unequally yoked.
God’s faithfulness to your obedience is something you cannot fathom, you can only experience it. Walk and stay away and that obedience will clear the path for YOUR man of God from God. ,
My prayer for you is that God will guard your heart and guide your every footstep. I pray that God will reveal himself in your friendships and the reason for those friendships. I pray that God will give you the courage to listen and act when He speaks and that you will flourish in Christ all the more. I pray for quick revelation guidance and direction, and I pray that you will not harden your heart.
Remember 2nd Timothy 3:14-17 …”But don’t let it faze you. Stick with what you learned and believed, sure of the integrity of your teachers—why, you took in the sacred Scriptures with your mother’s milk! There’s nothing like the written Word of God for showing you the way to salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. Every part of Scripture is God-breathed and useful one way or another—showing us truth, exposing our rebellion, correcting our mistakes, training us to live God’s way. Through the Word we are put together and shaped up for the tasks God has for us” (MESSAGE TRANSLATION)
In Christ’s Love,
Your sister Alivitsa
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